Friday, June 15, 2012

Some Random Thoughts

Random Thoughts

I'm not sure how pantyhose and tights became such a big part of my life, but they did. Oh I'm sure I have my ideas but I am not going to bore you with my thoughts as others have done such a wonderful job of chronicling their journey in some amazing blogs.

The enjoyment of tights might be hard for a majority of women to understand as they are just part of their normal wardrobe and nothing special. This also is probably difficult for a majority of men to understand as well since tights are seen as feminine. However, there are numerous men, women, people out there who do get it and enjoy the feelings of the silky yarns on their legs and bodies and I am so grateful to those who have shared their comments and stories with me. Thank you my friends for confirming that I am not alone and maybe some day this enjoyment can be public without fear of being ridiculed and ostracized.

Yes, I am a guy and I love tights. Sometimes the tights consumed me and other times I tried to purge them from my existence. However, as I get older and hopefully wiser I have come to realize that I can't purge my thoughts and desires for tights completely and so I have come to accept my love of tights as just another aspect of my personality good or bad. Now I just strive to achieve some balance in my life. Like all good things in life such as food or wine, moderation is good. Excessiveness can be bad and so can denial, so my philosophy is moderation because life is too short. Of course I don't always practice what I preach, laughing...but I try :-)

I am straight and love my new wife dearly. She has been a new source of inspiration and brought balance back to my life. We share our passion for tights in the bedroom together, which has been liberating to share with my best friend. However, I must admit that I have been too afraid to share my crossdressing fetish with her just yet and some of my fantasies which includes bisexuality. Maybe some day, but there is no rush as I do love what we have already. I think fantasies are healthy for all of us to have. Fantasies should be fun and can be fun to dream about or talk about it. Some fantasies do come true and some don't and that is OK. Not all fantasies have to come true, but they still provide us with lots of entertainment. I think our brain is the biggest sex organ we have and we shouldn't be afraid to exercise it. Sometimes its those secret fantasies which bring us the biggest pleasure. As my new wife and I told each other when we first began dating not all sexual encounters have to end in orgasims just the act of making love (in all of its various forms from kissing, touching, rubbing, to licking, sucking and fucking) can be fun itself since we are enjoying each other. Something to remember as we all get older :-)

OK that was enough random thoughts. Don't worry I'll get back to posting more pictures and erotic stories soon. Thanks for reading and please feel free to share your comments. I love to hear from you.